tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post116481885827474640..comments2023-07-16T02:48:40.931-07:00Comments on Sizzle Says: Nice, ShmiceSizzlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164897723840509312006-11-30T06:42:00.000-08:002006-11-30T06:42:00.000-08:00I think you're holding out for the supreme guy. I'...I think you're holding out for the supreme guy. I've got to get out that way soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164868221933131192006-11-29T22:30:00.000-08:002006-11-29T22:30:00.000-08:00I kinda get tired of hearing things like "You're s...I kinda get tired of hearing things like "You're such a great guy" and "How are you still single?"<BR/><BR/>Especially when the answer to the latter is, "It's really not all that difficult, if you apply yourself." :)Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164864153446466042006-11-29T21:22:00.000-08:002006-11-29T21:22:00.000-08:00You wrote: For the record, I am still not dating o...You wrote: For the record, I am still not dating or pursuing dates...<BR/><BR/>My reply: For the record, you have yet to be "single" long enough to see if you really need a man to make your life complete. <BR/><BR/>What is the damn rush?matildahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448662121980560268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164848079972214072006-11-29T16:54:00.000-08:002006-11-29T16:54:00.000-08:00ME TOO! When it comes to... just about everything....ME TOO! When it comes to... just about everything. I went through an overly long phase where I seemed to be only attracted to guys who would treat me bad and mess with my head. Now, it's really the exact opposite that I find myself getting dreamy over. I like nice guys, solid boy-next doors. I think that secretly it's my way of making amends with my past self...apologizing for hurting my own heart. <BR/><BR/>And for the record, I'd like you to be happily in love some day, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164845515600133592006-11-29T16:11:00.000-08:002006-11-29T16:11:00.000-08:00Last line should read:"I wanted to punish ... "Last line should read:<BR/><BR/>"I wanted to punish ... "Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164845457302432552006-11-29T16:10:00.000-08:002006-11-29T16:10:00.000-08:00I wrestled this same demon many years ago. I fina...I wrestled this same demon many years ago. I finally figured out why I did this very thing.<BR/><BR/>It was simple (for me). I always wanted that guy (the one I really didn't even like) because I wanted to be able to leave him in the dust FIRST. To make someone else feel as bad as I felt when I was abandoned emotionally from my alcoholic mother (now recovering). To feel as bad as I did every time my ex-husband would beat me to a pulp. I wanted them to exit the relationship feeling, "I loved as much as I could and I was kicked to the curb."<BR/><BR/>I wanted to every guy who came within inches of getting close to me by giving retribution for the deep, soul wrenching pain caused by others before him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164832956321878892006-11-29T12:42:00.000-08:002006-11-29T12:42:00.000-08:00I have that "nice" problem too. The "wanting every...I have that "nice" problem too. The "wanting everyone to like me" problem. It's hard, no? If you do find a solution could you let me know?<BR/><BR/>My husband and I had it out over this one/the birthday fiasco last night. His feelings were hurt, as mine were before the talk, and I couldn't make "I just want you to put as much effort into things as I do" come out right without sounding like a complete bitch. This wanting to please everyone <I>and</I> being happy at the same time thing is rough.Mrs. Cahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01082235238988664221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164829438212824332006-11-29T11:43:00.000-08:002006-11-29T11:43:00.000-08:00You know I find myself poorly describing men, almo...You know I find myself poorly describing men, almost purely because when it doesn't work out (as I always convince myself it won't) everyone will know that they were no good, and I am better off without them. Pure self-protection.<BR/><BR/>I will add however, that many (MANY) people have referred to me as many things much much worse than "nice"... and I don't mind that at all either. Sometimes I am not a nice girl.<BR/><BR/>;-)hannahhashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03080930121511278237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164828882978748042006-11-29T11:34:00.000-08:002006-11-29T11:34:00.000-08:00Siz rocks like Round Midnight.Siz rocks like Round Midnight.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828593974447279750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164826041383182022006-11-29T10:47:00.000-08:002006-11-29T10:47:00.000-08:00If you are living your life the way you like, beco...If you are living your life the way you like, becoming the person you want to be and approve of yourself, approval from others will matter less and less.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14702231605902566310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164823933938450312006-11-29T10:12:00.000-08:002006-11-29T10:12:00.000-08:00The fact that these fucktards are not falling all ...The fact that these fucktards are not falling all over themselves to woo you tells me two things: 1) The universe has a way of protecting you from things that would not ultimately be good for you; and 2) they are stupid. <BR/><BR/>There are a huge number of possible good matches for you out there. It's a matter of being open to them at the right time and allowing yourself to cut out the ones that hold you back. You are awesome and don't let anyone's actions or lack thereof tell you otherwise.Lushyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05909334978999867445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164823520977889432006-11-29T10:05:00.000-08:002006-11-29T10:05:00.000-08:00You're smart and healthy and learning a ton about ...You're smart and healthy and learning a ton about yourself right now. Don't discount the journey! Once you have these realizations, there is no going back.<BR/><BR/>I'm proud of you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164822978049341782006-11-29T09:56:00.000-08:002006-11-29T09:56:00.000-08:00That "nice" bullshit line gets to me, too. Nice i...That "nice" bullshit line gets to me, too. Nice is now an insult, because it seems to generalize and makes the speaker sound unthoughtful. It always comes with a high tone reserved for the imaginary second syllable.<BR/><BR/>Watch out for being called "sweet" and "wonderful" too, though; people use a word that has more meaning than they should give it, and makes it lose the value. I suppose an action would be stronger than a beautiful word spoken as hollowly as an echo.Anthony S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04037726752314324888noreply@blogger.com