tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post116415478531432097..comments2023-07-16T02:48:40.931-07:00Comments on Sizzle Says: I Want To Be DifferentSizzlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164392913531559312006-11-24T10:28:00.000-08:002006-11-24T10:28:00.000-08:00I can change my hair, my car, my job, my look, my ...I can change my hair, my car, my job, my look, my address... but changing my behaviors is a stone cold bitch. If I didn't like my rut at least a little I wouldn't be in it.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14702231605902566310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164284450207715182006-11-23T04:20:00.000-08:002006-11-23T04:20:00.000-08:00good luck. from what i can tell after reading you...good luck. from what i can tell after reading your blog for a long time, you are stronger than you think. we all have hurdles to overcome, and like lots of your other readers, i totally emphasize with this issue. but you are worth it, don't diminish yourself and your needs. i'm glad to hear that it stops now. happy thankgsiving!Bexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08603311133542970477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164267749653562802006-11-22T23:42:00.000-08:002006-11-22T23:42:00.000-08:00Nessy, fight it and get some help. You know how ha...Nessy, fight it and get some help. You know how hard it was for me to break the same habits? HARD. PAINFUL. But I am happier now than I ever have been, because I learned the lessons the hard way. But you have to WANT it. Don't stay where you are simply because it is familiar. That's the domestic abuse victim pattern: you stay with what you know how to manage. Break the chains of self-imposed bondage, get therapy if you need to, but TAKE A STAND and MAKE A CHOICE to be happy. You're an amazing person, and I know you can do this.Solnichka Frankensteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18420724297731285602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164261252094606402006-11-22T21:54:00.000-08:002006-11-22T21:54:00.000-08:00I realize this is your personal blog but have you ...I realize this is your personal blog but have you ever seriously considered therapy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164232185047209192006-11-22T13:49:00.000-08:002006-11-22T13:49:00.000-08:00I'm glad you ended that with "it stops now" becaus...I'm glad you ended that with "it stops now" because you know what? It just does. There's no secret, no plan of action, you just do it.<BR/><BR/>You decide to do it and you practice doing it and it just happens. You have draw backs and set backs and pissed off people but you know what, you do it anyway. You just do.<BR/><BR/>Have a fabulous Thanksgiving, ma'am, you deserve it!JustRunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03621925857881380555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164229431266766382006-11-22T13:03:00.000-08:002006-11-22T13:03:00.000-08:00You almost always give me something to think about...You almost always give me something to think about. I'll be thinking about this one for awhile.<BR/><BR/>Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving, Ms. Sizzle.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164228224931411182006-11-22T12:43:00.000-08:002006-11-22T12:43:00.000-08:00Good for you. I've had invisibility on my mind of ...Good for you. I've had invisibility on my mind of late as a distilled word for being unobtrusive, hanging back, not being seen in one way or another. I'm still working it out in my head, but it's similar/related to what you're talking about here. Thanks for sharing.<BR/><BR/>and happy early thanksgiving!Clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06168243108016358137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164224118792637992006-11-22T11:35:00.000-08:002006-11-22T11:35:00.000-08:00This is great discovery Ms. Sizzle. It's not easy...This is great discovery Ms. Sizzle. It's not easy to dig deep and come to these conclusions, but I sense a breakthrough is in your future. <BR/><BR/>I sound like a fortune cookie. Good luck breaking free and happy Turkey Day.eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03783658744477659987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164214693308155302006-11-22T08:58:00.000-08:002006-11-22T08:58:00.000-08:00my mantra is speaking up for myself in situations ...my mantra is speaking up for myself in situations that really matter. otherwise, i feel pretty crappy because everyone else is looking out for themselves and really don't give a damn about anyone else other than themselves.<BR/><BR/>this way, i don't feel dejected all the time.<BR/><BR/>does this make sense at all?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1164209635687552872006-11-22T07:33:00.000-08:002006-11-22T07:33:00.000-08:00This is an issue that causes a lot of fights with ...This is an issue that causes a lot of fights with my husband. Both of us are always asking what the other wants, but never saying what either one of us truly wants. The standard example is going out to dinner - both of us have ideas about where we want to go, but neither will voice our ideas for fear the other person has somewhere they'd rather go. It's annoying and we're trying to stop doing this, but it's too easy to try to please others. Just the other day I spoke up for what I really wanted and felt bad about it for the rest of the day. I need to get over that. Good luck with your similar venture.Mrs. Cahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01082235238988664221noreply@blogger.com