tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post112139581406330780..comments2023-07-16T02:48:40.931-07:00Comments on Sizzle Says: What comes first?Sizzlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00182860438430294750noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121805592567394572005-07-19T13:39:00.000-07:002005-07-19T13:39:00.000-07:00Passer by, if you can't understand that there is m...Passer by, if you can't understand that there is more to losing weight than 'if you want to, just do it' then mind your own beeswax. It would take hours and hours for me to go through every one of my issues on the subject. <BR/><BR/>Sizzle, I feel for what you're going through. I know it because I own it as well. It's a heavy weight to bear, and I'm not talking about the pounds.kim ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17667712861749764749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121787950832409202005-07-19T08:45:00.000-07:002005-07-19T08:45:00.000-07:00Oh, boy... this is a can of worms. I, too, have ha...Oh, boy... this is a can of worms. I, too, have had this struggle. First with being very skinny in high school and young adult-hood, then gradually gaining, losing, gaining, etc. There is a point you have to say 'enough' and decide you are going to be the way you are and you just have to get to know this person. Hopefully, love and acceptance will follow. I think you have to like yourself and be comfortable with yourself first, then IF IT IS TO BE you will lose weight. If not, then so be it. You are a beautiful girl, and I for one can relate to the "she has such a pretty face if she'd just lose weight" comments. What's MORE IMPORTANT is you appear to be a beautiful girl INSIDE. Yep. (stepping off the soapbox now)<BR/><BR/>BTW - Did you ever see the movie where the picked-on ugly fat girl loses weight and gets plastic surgery and goes out and kills everyone that was ever mean to her? ... Mwaaaahaaahaaa ;)suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08527685826432582235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121759178493372182005-07-19T00:46:00.000-07:002005-07-19T00:46:00.000-07:00If you want to loose weight, and your body feels b...If you want to loose weight, and your body feels better with less weight, why don't do it?<BR/><BR/>And that decision is something you have to take yourself. Nobody but you can change that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121719312783196062005-07-18T13:41:00.000-07:002005-07-18T13:41:00.000-07:00After years of struggiling with the on-again-off-a...After years of struggiling with the on-again-off-again ten lbs., i finally solved it by gaining thirty and staying there. my body and i have made this angry kind of peace. we don't much care for one another, but we're stuck in this together. <BR/><BR/>there all sorts of moments in this post to which i want to scream AMEN. as for answers, though, i have none. do tell me when you find them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121716475367281672005-07-18T12:54:00.000-07:002005-07-18T12:54:00.000-07:00Will you write my column from now on?Will you write my column from now on?B Merrickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17722378109833671750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7861052.post-1121713198542177852005-07-18T11:59:00.000-07:002005-07-18T11:59:00.000-07:00"How do you get to that place where you accept you..."How do you get to that place where you accept yourself and your size?" Beats the hell out of me. Let me know if you figure it out!Lushyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05909334978999867445noreply@blogger.com